friendly reminder that you don’t need any diagnosis or disorder to adapt your routine to accommodate you! sit down in the shower. brush your teeth and wash your face in the shower. bring a chair to the kitchen while you cook. use unscented products. your routine should be built for you.
(via gay-gym-rats)
Not gay as in “happy” but queer as in “fuck you, the people I love will eat well”. Not gay as in “happy” but queer as in “so long as I can cook for others it’ll all end up okay”. But queer as in “are you hungry?”. Queer as in “Did you eat today?”. Queer as in “Here’s one of my favorite recipes I’ve made”, queer as in “I cook too big for just myself”, queer as in “Come on upstairs with a bowl”, queer as in “Are you allergic to anything?”, queer as in “It’s okay, it’s gonna be okay, here, eat this chocolate”, queer as in “I love you, I hope we both eat well”, queer as in “I love you and therefore I must hate what wants you to starve”, queer as in “the metronome of sharing orange slices”, queer as in “take this, all of you, and eat of it”, queer as in food and love and rage at everything and everyone which would see us miserable and unable to have enough to share with others. Not gay as in “happy”, but queer as in “I can’t let others go hungry”.
(via gay-gym-rats)
That was somebody’s mom whose dream had always been to be a restaurant owner but sadly she married into the mafia and she was like the mom of someone important and moms are like the one authority italians recognise so when she put her foot down and said “NO. We are going to make them great food and give them the most lovely evening!” Nobody dared disagree and thanks to op she got to live her dream for a night she probably remembers them as fondly as they remember her
(via nucleartourist)
gritty both capturing the zeitgeist as usual AND educating me on the availability of free flow butter at american cinemas
There’s a quote from Bert where he says he‘s “known big bird since he was a little bird” and the thought of it makes my heart cry so here’s that
(via nucleartourist)
how is this fucking website more transphobic than twitter.
I’m not even talking about staff flagging everything, that’s a separate issue, I’m talking about the userbase.
It’s like, everything a trans woman says gets twisted to mean the opposite thing and slapped in a callout post. it’s not just piss poor reading comprehension it’s willful misinterpretation.you can’t say “be gay do crime” then start completely unfounded smear campaigns about marginalized people.
crab bucket mentality
hey trans solidarity is everything. never forget this.
(via derpypandaqueen)